Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Homemade Happy Hour!



Who says babies can't Happy Hour? 

If the Happy Houring is in a public bar setting then most mothers everywhere say "NO" to babies at Happy Hour. However, if you get Cocktails & Glitter creative and bring Happy Hour home, all babies are welcome all the time...as long as they get permission and a ride from their moms!


When the tide of life changes you must adjust to the new ebb and flow.  In the last year, life has changed a great deal for many of our friends as they have created tiny wonderful human beings that we adore. Those tiny human beings have a great many needs and a schedule all their own that does not mesh well at a typical Happy Hour, so we decided to bring Happy Hour home! This gives us and others the chance to see our girlfriends that can't Happy Hour at bars and a chance to fuss over their beautiful babies. Win Win for everyone! 

First, we picked a day and date that worked for us and the moms. Looks like Mondays are going to be our go-to day for our home brewed Happy Hours! Kate's house was picked as the location because it is so centrally located and a great party house with plenty of indoor and especially outdoor space. Then we decided to each bring a snack to share and our own drink of choice.  Spread a quilt on the floor for the babies, poured some wine, ate fabulous chocolate cake and kissed those babies. SUCCESS!

If we were to rate our own Happy Hour hands down it gets a 5 out of 5 martinis. The atmosphere is charming and flows for a large gathering or an intimate few. The bathrooms are great! Service down right phenomenal! The deals are the best in town 5 snacks for the price of one and wine with fun labels! Not to mention private spaces for nursing or diaper changes if needed.

It was such a brilliant idea and smashing success that we are already planning the next one for September and hope to make it a monthly thing or as much as possible. We will still be scouting out great Happy Hour deals and locations in RVA, but this way we get the best of both worlds! 




Cheers!
K&H



 

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

August is Just Like July

Why is blogging so tough in July and August?

In July we feared we would have little to blog about and worried it would carry over into August...it appears that fear is coming true. Just like in July we are rocking and rolling, but just like in July we are rocking and rolling with non-C&G stuff. 

There are no shortage of crafting ideas or house projects to tackle and have fun working on. Yet, the motivation to start any of them seems to be seriously lacking or chores get in the way or we simply have to go out of town for weekend getaways. Why doesn't the house clean itself so all we have to do is work on fun craft projects? 

We at least managed to get in one Happy Hour in July at Viceroy, which earned 2.5 martinis based mainly on the décor. We won't Happy Hour there again but would be willing to give it a try for dinner. We started August with a Happy Hour at The Continental (the former Phil's Continental, which relocated to the other end of the block of Libbie and Grove). The Continental earned 3 martinis. Tomorrow we will be giving The Well (the former Cous Cous) a go.  So at least we will have gotten in two Happy Hours in for the month of August.  

September we are counting on you to bring a renewal of creativity and fresh inspiration for crafting and Happy Houring and Festivaling.

September is going to be our comeback month...we feel it! 

Cheers!
K&H

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

It's official: I'm a hero!


A James River Hero Homeowner that is! And you can be one too!

When my husband and I purchased our first home last year, we had great plans for a great yard. We were fortunate that the former owners kept up with their yard, unlike many of the other urban backyard jungles we witnessed while house hunting. However, the backyard wasn’t quite our style: Lots of brick paths, neat rows of boring bushes, and even a side yard filled with pea gravel. Since we moved in, in mid spring of 2012, we had to be content with planting our vegetables in the small square beds in the back, and adding a few pops of color here and there.

This was taken a few days after we moved in. The juniper was removed ASAP as we discovered it was a hideout for rats!  None have been seen since.
During the winter months, we made plans and sketches for our future oasis. In the early stages of planning, we both agreed that we wanted the yard to be pretty, but also functional for us and for wildlife. I came across the James River Hero Homes program from the James River Association (JRA), and we decided that this was something we needed to be a part of. After a bit of research, it turned out to be the easiest part of our backyard makeover! The purpose of the program is to encourage residents in the James River Watershed to reduce the amount of storm water and pollution leaving their property, and ultimately entering the local rivers and the Chesapeake Bay. All we do to our yards, from fertilizer to pet waste, can impact the health of the waterways, making it unsafe for wildlife and for humans.

The application process is easy. Simply indicate on the application the river friendly practice(s) you currently have in place with photo documentation. We had recently purchased 2 rain barrels from JRA at Hardywood Brewery, so we chose that for our photo documentation. Then we completed the checklist of smart yard practices that we currently had in place or planned to implement. Just a few that we were able to check included composting, mowing the grass at a high level, reduced use of herbicides & pesticides, and including native plants to our gardens. After that, all we had to do was click submit and wait! A week or so later, we received our welcome packet from JRA that included a garden flag and a discount card to use at local nurseries and other yard related retailers. Having the discount card saved us a few hundred dollars in plants, mulch and gravel!
 
Rain barrels made from bourbon barrels.
Another bonus of our makeover is that we can be qualified to earn “credit” (really a discount!) in our storm water fees from the City of Richmond. We have yet to apply for this, but since we’ve added rain barrels and reduced the amount of impervious surfaces, I’m sure we’ll qualify!

Since we wanted to use a lot of native plants, we had a home consultation from Garden Gate Nursery. Although we had access to lists of native plants, it was very helpful for someone to give us options that would work best for our yard. I highly recommend doing this, as it took the guess work out of shade vs. sun, heights, and what grows well together! 

So instead of me writing about what we did to the yard, I thought I’d just show you! I unfortunately lost some photos from early this year, but have some from last year to serve as my “before” photos to my “after.” Happy viewing!

A few months after moving in, taken early summer. Not a bad yard, just not quite ours.
Using the existing beds, this was our garden mid-summer 2012.




Fast forward to Spring 2013:
The rows of bushes were removed and raised gardens for herbs and veggies were built. The Carolina jasmine on the fence was put up by the previous owner.
We created a winding path though the back.

I planted flowers as soon as I could!
 
It started to take shape really quickly!

At the end of our new pathway, tickseed on the right, bee balm, goldenrod and sedum on the left.
We chose a chipped slate for our pathways- less weeds to pull yet still will drain water well. On the right you can see elderberry, butterfly bushes, itea (with the white flowers in the back), service berry (back corner), baptisa (front left), yellow yarrow and tall phlox.


We filled the slate between the garden beds as well for easy maintenance.

Most of the plants are in and the path is complete! We even extended the fire pit area.
 
The cherry tree was removed, and more native plants were planted.
The beds on the side yard were planted with oak leaf hydrangea, a native variety. And not to state the obvious, but how awesome is our lounge area! Perfect for an evening cocktail!
The veggie garden started taking off!!
Most of the plants are thriving, aside from the ones eaten by bunnies. Here are some purple coneflowers, tickseed (with the red flowers), and yarrow (the coral).

Our (mostly) thriving veggie garden!


Over all we are thrilled with the results. It took us several weekends and lots of sweat, but we have the yard we wanted! We hope to finish a few more projects once the weather begins to cool, such as replacing the fire pit, removing the brick around the fire pit, and adding additional rain barrels to the back gutters and shed. We hope we can inspire you to create a backyard oasis that will not only be a place for you to enjoy, but one that will have a positive impact to our environment!

Cheers!

Kate















Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Friendship

You'll always be my friend...you know too much! 



 It seems there is a day or month to celebrate everything from the "Are you kidding me that deserves a day?" to the, "Duh that should happen every day!"  Which is the case when it comes to celebrating friendships. August 1 is National Girlfriends Day (as well as National Raspberry Cream Pie Day; check out the recipe), and the first Sunday in August is National Friendship Day

As two ladies who know and value the gift of friendship, we would like to take the time to celebrate our friends. We have a great many friends in common and over the years our separate friends have become each others friends. It's so great to see our circles overlap, it's just another way they grow.


We understand the depth and meaning and love of friendship. We know the laughter and tears of friendship. We know the triumphs and the missteps of friendship. We know the joys and frustrations of friendships. We know the honor and endless support of friendship. We know the challenges and magic of friendship. We know a great deal about friendship as we have been taught it by the many individuals who we have had the privilege of gracing our lives. 
 
Yep, this happens most of the time. Wardrobe ESP.

Our lives our are rich with the gifts of friendship and we are thankful and grateful for every single one of our friends every single day. Without you, we would not be the (awesome) people we are today. Our friendships have taught us about ourselves, life and love. Our friendships have given us support and encouragement and the occasional Come-to-Jesus meeting moments when needed. Our friendships have been the source of joy in moments of great happiness and the source of strength in moments of great sadness. Our friendships have endured highs and lows, the challenge of distance and the test of time. Our friendships have out the lived the 80s, the 90s and the first decade of the 2000s! Our friendships are rooted and based in something that is hard to explain but not hard to feel as it goes to the soul of our being.  





Friends are the family we choose and between us we have a pretty vast and awesome family of friends.  Thank you for being part of lives and for letting us be part of your lives.
 
 

Cheers!
K&H